Joining a Dating Website – The Process
Get the Most from Your Online Dating Site Membership
Once you have finally decided that you are going to join a dating website – whether you want to chase loose women for casual sex and no-strings flings or if you desire a long-term relationship with a view to marriage – then it’s time for the nitty-gritty.
Firstly, you must only join a big, reputable dating site that has been around for many years. Do not join a dating site that opened its doors for business yesterday or very recently and only has a few thousand members (at best). The exception to this is if you are looking for a woman from a particular social group or niche. If you are seeking to meet women interested in Thomas the Tank Engine or stamps from 18th Century Albania – by all means join a dating website devoted to these weird pursuits.
Secondly, do not waste your time getting a free or trial membership. You must sign up as a full member immediately. If you do not do this, you cannot usually even contact any women – only view their profiles. This kind of useless “window shopping” for girls is a complete waste of time. If you cannot contact these women, what is the point?
Thirdly, put a great deal of time and effort into creating your profile. I have provided plenty of information about this in detail in my ebook Turn Cyber Sex Into Reality, and also in other articles on this website. But in short, here are some must dos:
- tick all the boxes that apply to you on any checklists in the joining/profile steps
- check your spelling
- highlight your best points without sounding like a cocky, arrogant prick
- put in you very best photos, accentuating your best physical features
- emphasize any achievements and successes – but don’t tell big fat lies
- get a friend to check what you have done
- if it sucks, change it to something better
Fourthly, when searching for women, be specific about what you want, but be open to meeting women a little bit different. If you are too picky, you won’t meet any women. Target women who are slightly older and have been members for a long period of time. These broads are in it for the long haul.
Fifthly, be patient and persistent. You cannot fail to meet women if you do all the right things. Usually, you should be meeting girls and having some incredibly rewarding and hot dates in a matter of weeks to months. If you are a stellar student and performer, it could happen within a few days. It did for Cam!